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Journal · May 30, 2026 · 6 min read

How much to tip in the US: every common situation, with the arithmetic

American tipping is a dozen small rules rather than one big one, and most of the confusion comes from not knowing which one applies. Here is the situation-by-situation table, the arithmetic for the awkward cases (pre-tax or post-tax, the bar tab, the bill that already includes a gratuity), and where every number comes from.

If you are unsure how much to tip, you are in the majority. In a 2023 survey of 11,945 US adults by the Pew Research Center, only about a third said it was extremely or very easy to know whether to tip (34%) or how much (33%). And 72% said tipping is expected in more places than it was five years earlier.

The rules themselves are short. Here they are, followed by the arithmetic for the cases where they get awkward.

How much to tip, by situation

The ranges are the Emily Post Institute’s, from its general tipping guide. The last column applies them to example bills.

Situation Usual guidance Worked example
Sit-down restaurant 15–20% of the bill before tax $60 of food: $9–$12
Buffet 10% before tax $30: $3
Takeout No obligation; 10% for curbside service or a large, complicated order $45 order: $0, or $4.50
Food delivery 10–15% of the bill; $2–5 for pizza, by size and difficulty $32 order: $3.20–$4.80
Bartender $1–2 per drink, or 15–20% of the tab See the bar tab below
Tip jar No obligation; tip now and then for extra effort, or if you are a regular Your call
Taxi 15–20% of the fare, at least $1, plus $2 for the first bag and $1 for each one after $38 fare, 2 bags: $8.70–$10.60
Hair stylist 15–20%, shared among everyone who worked on you $70 cut: $10.50–$14
Hotel housekeeping $2–5 per day, left daily 4 nights: $8–$20
Valet $2–5 when the car comes back  
Bellhop $2 for the first bag, $1 for each additional bag 3 bags: $4

The guide covers tip jars, not the tip screens now common at counters. A screen asks the same question as a jar, so the jar row is the closest guide.

Why the restaurant row is different

Under the federal Fair Labor Standards Act, an employer can pay a tipped worker a cash wage of $2.13 an hour and count up to $5.12 an hour of tips toward the $7.25 federal minimum wage, according to the Department of Labor’s Fact Sheet #15. Some states, including California, Oregon and Washington, require the full state minimum wage before tips, as the Department’s state-by-state table shows. Where the tip credit applies, the restaurant tip is counted toward the server’s wage itself.

What Americans actually tip

Pew asked how often people tip in different settings. The share who say they always or often tip:

Setting Always or often tip
Sit-down restaurant 92%
Haircut 78%
Food delivery 76%
Drink at a bar 70%
Taxi or rideshare 61%
Buying coffee 25%
Fast casual restaurant 12%

The amounts sit lower than the etiquette range. A majority would tip 15% or less for an average meal at a sit-down restaurant, and only about a quarter would tip 20% or more. So 15% is where guidance and habit overlap, and 20% is the top of the range rather than the norm.

Pre-tax or post-tax? The arithmetic

The Emily Post guide calculates the restaurant tip on the bill before tax. If you tip on the after-tax total instead, the gap is always the tip rate times the tax.

Dinner for four, $148.00 of food, and a sales tax of 8% (an example rate; yours depends on where you eat): $11.84 of tax, $159.84 in total.

Tip On $148.00 before tax On $159.84 after tax Difference
15% $22.20 $23.98 $1.78
18% $26.64 $28.77 $2.13
20% $29.60 $31.97 $2.37

At an 18% tip and an 8% tax, tipping on the total adds 1.44% of the food bill: $2.13 here, about 53 cents a head. Neither choice is rude. Picking one and using it every time is the useful habit.

The bill that already includes a tip

Some restaurants add an automatic gratuity, often for large parties, so read the bill before you reach for a percentage. Under the Fair Labor Standards Act a compulsory charge for service is not a tip (DOL Fact Sheet #15). The IRS lists a large dining party’s automatic gratuity as a service charge, because a tip has to be voluntary and its amount set by the customer (IRS fact sheet FS-2017-08).

Missing the line is expensive. A party of eight, $420 of food, an 18% automatic gratuity of $75.60. Add a reflexive 20% ($84.00) on top and service has cost $159.60, or 38% of the food. Leaving something extra for exceptional service is still your choice; doing it by accident is the thing to avoid.

The bar tab: per drink or percentage?

The bartender row offers two rules, and which one is more generous depends on the price of the drink.

Round $1 a drink $2 a drink 15–20% of the tab
6 beers at $7 ($42) $6 (14%) $12 (29%) $6.30–$8.40
6 cocktails at $15 ($90) $6 (7%) $12 (13%) $13.50–$18.00

The rules meet at about $10 a drink, where $1.50–$2 is 15–20%. Below that, $2 a drink runs well above 20%. Above it, $1 a drink falls well under 15%, and the percentage is the rule to use.

When a group splits the tip

The tip follows the food. If everyone ordered about the same, divide the total with tip by the number of people. If not, give each person the same percentage on what they ordered: at 20%, a $16 salad carries $3.20 of tip and a $52 steak carries $10.40. The social side, who proposes what and when, is in how to split a Valentine’s dinner without making it weird.

Where RightSplit fits

RightSplit puts the tip on the same screen as the split. The tip control has four presets, 0%, 15%, 18% and 20%, and a slider from 0 to 30% in whole-percent steps. On an iPhone set to the US or Canada region, the first tip it suggests is 18%; in the UK it starts at 10% and in Japan at 0%. After that it remembers whatever you used last.

The free equal split applies the percentage to the total amount you type. Enter the after-tax total from the dinner above and choose 18%: $188.61, which Round fairly, on by default, splits as $47.16 for one person and $47.15 for the other three, so the shares add up to the cent. That is the post-tax tip, $2.13 more than the pre-tax version. If the bill already includes a service charge, the 0% preset is the one to tap.

In Pro+, item splitting gives each person the tip on what they ordered, and when a scanned receipt has tax and tip lines, RightSplit spreads both in proportion to each person’s items. There are no accounts; only the person holding the phone needs the app.

What it won’t do is choose the percentage. RightSplit doesn’t know whether you are at a buffet or a steakhouse, so the table above is still the part you bring.

TL;DR

  • Sit-down restaurants: 15–20% of the bill before tax. Buffets 10%. Most Americans tell Pew they would leave 15% or less.
  • Delivery 10–15%, taxis and haircuts 15–20%, housekeeping $2–5 a day, valets $2–5. Takeout and tip jars carry no obligation.
  • Tipping after tax adds the tip rate times the tax: $2.13 on an 18% tip for $148 of food at 8% tax.
  • At the bar, $1–2 a drink and 15–20% meet at about $10 a drink. On pricier cocktails, use the percentage.
  • An automatic gratuity is a service charge under DOL and IRS rules. Read the bill before adding 20% on top.

Questions

Frequently asked

How much should you tip at a restaurant in the US?
The Emily Post Institute's guidance for sit-down service is 15–20% of the bill before tax, and 10% at a buffet. In practice, a 2023 Pew Research Center survey found that a majority of Americans would tip 15% or less for an average meal at a sit-down restaurant, while about a quarter would tip 20% or more.
Should you tip on the pre-tax or post-tax amount?
The Emily Post Institute calculates restaurant tips on the bill before tax. Tipping on the after-tax total costs a little more, and the difference is always the tip rate times the tax. On $148 of food with an 8% sales tax, an 18% tip is $26.64 before tax and $28.77 after, a gap of $2.13.
How much do you tip a bartender?
$1–2 per drink, or 15–20% of the tab. The two rules agree at about $10 a drink. On cheaper drinks, $2 a drink runs well above 20%; on $15 cocktails, $1 a drink works out to under 7%, so the percentage rule is the one that keeps you in the usual range.
Do you tip on top of an automatic gratuity?
Check the bill first. Under the Fair Labor Standards Act, a compulsory charge for service is not a tip, and the IRS lists a large dining party's automatic gratuity as a service charge. Adding a reflexive 20% on top of an 18% automatic gratuity means paying 38% of the food bill for service. Anything extra for exceptional service is your choice.
Do you have to tip for takeout or at a counter?
No. The Emily Post Institute lists takeout and tip jars as carrying no obligation, with 10% suggested for curbside delivery or a large, complicated takeout order, and an occasional tip at the jar if someone goes out of their way or you are a regular. Pew found only 25% of Americans always or often tip when buying coffee, and 12% at fast casual restaurants.
How much should you tip hotel housekeeping?
$2–5 per day, according to the Emily Post Institute, left daily with a note saying it is for housekeeping. For a four-night stay that comes to $8–$20 in total.

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